College preparation starts when they are young--before High School.  The expectation should be set very early.  When they enter high school they should understand how high school will prepare them for college and expectations need to be set for what they need to accomplish in high school.  Set the bar appropriately...  GPA 3.5+, extra-curricular activities whether that be sports or choir or music or student government, etc.  They also should have service opportunities and leadership opportunities.  It's good to have fun in high school but it's also a preparatory step and your youth needs to be prepared.  By their Junior year they should be taking ACT / SAT tests.  It's good to take some practice tests or tutoring.  Don't underestimate the importance of these entry exams. 

Also, a big area is financial.  You'd like to avoid loading your youth up with college debt, however, you shouldn't be mortgaging your future to get them through.  Start having them save for a college fund and also pursuit scholarships.  You should know what you can afford and what you are planning to contribute and make sure they are aware during high school so it can reinforce the importance of their good grades and additional efforts that will help them get scholarships. 

Most importantly is their decision making process.  It develops the whole time they are growing up.  Help them to become independent and develop the ability to be on their own.  They need to learn responsibility and the value of money.  When they enter college, put them on a budget.  Let them manage to that budget without bailing them out all the time.  Blowing a budget is something they need to learn.  10% miss is much better than a 100% miss.  They need to develop that discipline of spending only what they can afford.  Too many families and kids are saddling up with too much debt thinking when they make it big time they can pay it all off.  Think about avoiding all the debt and getting through college with minimal debt.

Regarding major... don't switch when it extends the graduation date.  Too often youth switch and add another couple of semesters.   That might help the college revenue stream, but rarely does the cost justification exist.  Few undergrad majors are going to get you through life.  You will need to learn a lot more in your first job.  Graduating with a bachelors degree teaches you to learn and adapt.  It says that you have dedication and you know how to complete things.  The goal should be graduating within 4 years with your bachelors degree.  Get through it as quickly as you can, learn as much as you can and then go get some career experience and prepare to get a Masters degree!  Also good to have internships between semesters.  Even if they are without pay--the experience is what you need--beyond working at a fast food restaurant (unless you are planning to work in that industry).

Your thoughts?



03/30/2012 00:27

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10/01/2013 04:12

Nice post and very helpful for parents. Good job.

01/25/2017 00:00

The whole story is remarkable for me. The preparing kids for college is challenging task. After the high school kids are happy but a little bit worried about the college life. And we know that it is the next level study which is tougher than high school study.

02/20/2017 15:44

The entire story is striking for me. The get ready children for school is testing assignment. After the secondary school children are glad yet a smidgen stressed over the school life.

04/08/2017 06:25

I'm sure the parents out there who have a child that is set to go to college this year is so thankful for this post! College is one of the challenges of parenthood in terms of financial matters. You really need to allot money for this stage of your child's life. At the same time this is the stage where they need to learn how to be independent. No matter how much you wanted to be there all the time, this is the point in their lives wherein they need to learn to stand in their own feet!

05/03/2017 01:18

The Tamilnadu Board SSLC (State Secondary School Leaving Certificate) will be releasing 2017


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